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Trust and safety

Date with confidence, even on a school night

Here is what the site does to keep fakes and scammers out, and what you can do yourself.

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  • Instant blocking
  • 24/7 human support

Being a dad means you have more to protect than most. This page explains how the site keeps fakes and scammers out and what you can do to look after yourself.

No site can promise a risk-free date

That is the honest starting point. What the site can do is make the risky things harder and give you the tools to spot trouble early. Verified profiles, screened content and instant blocking are part of that, and so is common sense on your side. Keep early chats on the site, never send money or gift cards to someone you have not met, and tell a friend where you will be when you meet in person.

Your kids' privacy comes first

You choose what your profile shows. Your real name and email are never shown publicly, and other members see only your nearest town or city, never your address or live location. You can say you are a dad without posting a single photo of your kids.

Step by step

How we look out for you

From the moment you join to your first date.

  1. Real people first

    You can verify your profile with a government ID, or with a live video check that needs no documents.

  2. Age checks

    Age is estimated automatically, with extra checks where they are required, to keep under-18s out.

  3. Screened content

    Images, videos and text are screened when they are uploaded, using AI and human review.

  4. Watching for trouble

    Unusual activity is flagged early, and you get a warning if someone tries to move the chat to an outside app.

  5. You stay in control

    Block anyone instantly, report from inside the site and decide what your profile shows.

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Ready when you are

Start with a profile you control

Choose what to share, verify when you want to and take it at your own pace.

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